From the moment I met Ms. L, I was struck by her presence – a woman of unwavering strength and boundless sweetness, yet one who hadn’t fully recognized her own worth. Here was someone who poured her heart into her family, embodying resilience and warmth, yet struggled to extend that same compassion towards herself. Despite weathering storms that would break many, Ms. L carried a smile that could light up the darkest rooms and offered hugs that felt like home. It was clear to me; she deserved to embrace herself with the same love and kindness.
Entering the studio for her first shoot, Ms. L was a bundle of nerves – hesitant, reserved, and unsure. It was a familiar dance of self-doubt many of us know all too well. Yet, beneath that uncertainty, I saw a flicker of something more: a potential just waiting to be unleashed. My goal was simple yet profound: guide her to see herself in a new light, to witness the incredible woman we all saw, to kickstart her journey towards true self-love.
The reveal was nothing short of transformative. The woman who once doubted her every move stood in awe of herself, unable to believe the radiant, powerful figure before her was indeed her own reflection. It was a pivotal moment, a turning point where disbelief morphed into empowerment, where self-recognition sparked a newfound confidence.
By the time Ms. L booked her second shoot, the change was palpable. She walked in with a swagger, a surety that hadn’t been there before, ready to own every moment. This wasn’t just about striking poses; it was about reclaiming her space, her identity, her power. With each snap of the camera, Ms. L blossomed, embodying the essence of confidence that boudoir photography nurtures – a testament to the transformative power of seeing oneself through a lens of strength and beauty.
Witnessing Ms. L’s journey has been an extraordinary privilege. It’s stories like hers that underscore the mission of boudoir photography – not just to capture moments, but to foster journeys of self-discovery, empowerment, and unabashed self-love. Ms. L’s transformation is a beacon of hope, a reminder that it’s never too late to see yourself in a new, empowering light.
To Ms. L, and to all the women embarking on this journey: know that with each shoot, you’re not just stepping in front of a camera; you’re stepping into your power, embracing your beauty, and becoming the author of your own incredible story.
You don't have to take my word for it! I'll let Ms. L herself tell you about her journey!
"In 2013-2014, my husband met Carrie and quickly discovered that boudoir photography was Carrie’s passion, which she used to empower women. He told me about Carrie’s adventure, and I quickly became a loyal follower. In 2019, life was challenging, and I had no confidence in myself. I didn’t see myself as attractive, let alone sexy. I got in touch with our wonderful cheerleader, Alicia, who calmed my nerves and explained how Carrie takes care of us. I reached out to Carrie and was blown away by her enthusiasm and joy.
As the date drew closer, I became petrified and filled with doubt. I thought I wasn’t pretty enough, thin enough, my thighs jiggled, and I had big hips. The self-doubts were overwhelming, and I was tempted many times to cancel. But I didn’t.
The day of the shoot was beautiful, and the experience was incredible. Carrie talked me through my doubts and feelings. She showed me the poses, we laughed, and I think I even cried. My hair and makeup made me feel like a princess. When my pictures came in, I sat on the couch with my mouth wide open. The woman on the screen was me? I couldn’t believe it! She looked beautiful, confident, and sexy – everything I thought I wasn’t. From that moment, I saw myself in a different light.
Four years later, life happened. Health issues arose, and I struggled as a wife, a mom, an employee, and most of all, being me. I once again contacted Carrie, made an appointment, and many times thought about canceling. But I didn’t. Why? Because I am worth it. I once again needed to see the hidden me that is buried under daily responsibilities. This experience was even better than the first, despite feeling unwell and my sugar levels bottoming out. The hair, makeup, lots of girl talk, wardrobe, and being pampered were something this 50+ year-old woman needed.
Boudoir is not something I thought I would like or need. Boudoir is a learning adventure, which may seem to only assist in the sexual aspect of your life to outsiders, but in reality, it enriches all aspects of your life. If you are on the fence, jump off and do it. You are enough."
